The Saturday after

They say you are supposed to make each moment last, don't take anything for granted, and live like there's no tomorrow. Well I usually live my life like this, but lately I have been wondering if that really is the best idea. Take for example telling someone you are extremely mad at them, well it feels good in that second, but then the next day when you don't talk, it REALLY hurts. I don't think before i do things. If I'm mad at someone I tell them, but then I am disappointed or hurt when we don't talk the next day. It is a very interesting problem, because not living in the moment means I'll wait around, but living in the moment means sometimes I'll regret what I just did. I wonder if I will figure it out eventually.